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Your Love Story (Part 7): Pig's Party



I decided to give Firesola a treat so I took her to a mall. I made sure she had a great time having fun. She behaves like a 10 year old when she is just about to clock 2 years. She made friends who were fascinated by her smiling and playful demeanor. She can be just as hilarious as her mum can be. As I was thinking about the similarities between Seun and Firesola, I heard a noise at a place close to where I watched Firesola from. I turned aside to see what caused the noise. It was a couple arguing.

I remembered that night I argued with Seun. She was defiant and wasn’t willing to hear my view. I had nudging in my Spirit that she was on a wrong road and I tried showing her, but she wouldn’t listen. I have never raised my voice at Seun until that night. I guess that annoyed her the more. I turned back to Firesola and allowed her to fill my thoughts. She is all I have now. The noise from the couple became louder and suddenly, I had a crash. I turned and saw the lady on the ground. The guy had hit her. She struggled to her feet and for the first time, I saw her face. Seun?

As I drove home, my mind wandered a lot. Seun left me for a woman beater? I was really confused. Her reaction when I tried to help her even made me more confused. What’s going on? The couple arguing at the mall was Seun and her new man. The guy hit her so hard in the face that she fell to the ground. When I saw that she was the one, I ran over to help her up and I faced the guy. I forgot that I am a Pastor. I wanted to fight the guy despite him being muscular than me. Seun ran to the middle and pushed me back. She ordered me to go away. Her voice was mixed with fear and tears. Is she regretting her decision already?

I have never raised my hand against Seun. Even my voice was always calm every time I’m with her. She has never been scared of me. Was I too gentle with her? Maybe her mum is right. Am I weak? I snapped out of the thought. I don’t believe that a man must be tough on a woman to exert his authority. She is not disrespectful. She recognized my place as her head and I loved her for it. Until she attended that seminar anyway. I remember a discussion we had while we were courting. She raised the topic of domestic violence and I was emphatic about my stand: Any man that beats a woman is a pig!

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